Hi,
I’m Kei.
You deserve deep, close, and satisfying relationships—platonic, sexual, and otherwise. I’m a brown, queer trans immigrant person who also happens to be a gender-affirming, sex-positive therapist who honors all kinds of sexual interests (including Kink/BDSM) and relationship styles (like polyamory and ENM).
Mental/
Relational/
Communal health
is a human right.
My Approach.
You’re done with the nodding-head therapist who says “How do you feel about that?” on repeat. You’re serious about your life and you want change.
Think of me like a conductor of an orchestra or coach for athletes rolled into one: your growth is my growth. I give you direct, no-nonsense feedback—no excuses, no sugarcoating (maybe a little bit). I deliver kitchen-table wisdom in a CAREfrontational way, instead of a confrontational way. If you’re after fluff that can come from an LLM; YouTube has some great channels (no shade, I love fluff). But if you’re ready to own and deal with your shit, I’ll grab a shovel too.
This work is real and intense—yet it can also be fun. My approach blends real talk with science-backed strategies to help you break old patterns, calm your mind, and experience genuine intimacy.
It’s easy to get started: click here to book a free consultation appointment. That’s it.
Personalized Care for Complex Relationships
I ground my work in relational practices, research AND real talk to understand why some things work and others get binned. My approach is direct and authentic, focusing on helping you address core issues like disconnection, trust, and intimacy. With me, you won’t just get by—you’ll grow and discover what truly matters in your relationships.
My Services.
I work with individuals, couples, polycules, and families navigating the messiness of real life—race, class, gender, sex, relationships, trauma, and everything in between. I know every experience is different, so I tailor therapy or counseling to your unique needs—no one-size-fits-all BS.
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Individuals, Couples, Polycules, Families, DBT Group.
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Held ONLINE or IN PERSON over 12 weeks, this group is designed for individuals who identify as LGBTQ+ who want to learn and practice skills to manage and reduce mental health concerns that impact their daily life.
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Gain insights and learn tools that work for you and your partner to continue to foster your relationship. Learn more…
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When we are not certain what to do with our relationships or marriage, how or if to approach the changes, we must break things down to see paths forward.
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Even professionals need support. Learn more…
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Are you an employer looking to build awareness, connection, and teach tangible skills?
I provide training and facilitated conversations on critical assets of successful working relationships, including:
-Mindfulness
-Cross cultural dynamics
-Conflict resolution
-Accessibility & Inclusivity
New to therapy?
Looking for something? Check out my session resources, my thoughts, and various other bits and bobs.